Top 10 Signs that you are wasting your future or career?
So, how’s that working out for you? Hopefully, it’s going well and you are living the life of your dreams. Doing hardwork for chasing dream everyday has always been a satisfaction at the end of day. But for rest of you who are not serious for future yet, here are 10 signs that you might be wasting your precious life……but you won’t admit it:
Addiction for phones
Cell phones are today’s super cool gadgets that can leave us entranced when you use them. You must think about all the time you are wasting with your phone. Even worse, think about all the relationships that might be affected when you are indulged in texting while having dinner with family. If you are, you’re missing out meaningful time you can use on learning, searching, studying and improve your skills as much you can. You could devote to making a plan for a better future.
Sleep, Work, Eat and Repeat
When most days look exactly the same as the next, there seems to be no upward growth, downward dip, just a flat line. You are in the continuous search of the most trivial high, which when you have forgotten the feelings of, you feel this emptiness because as soon is as you feel it, the next moment it is gone and this continues for you to keep securing it.
Life is to be lived, not to merely exist. You must take a break from the current hustle and bustle happening in your life. Your time on earth is short, the sooner you realize what your passion is, therein lies the answer that might lead you to better career opportunities
Chasing opposite or same sex
Dating is not a bad thing. It helps to develop a close relationship. As human beings, we always try to find a better partner for us. But if you chase opposite sex/same sex by social and dating sites frequently instead of finding your passion or important work, you are wasting your life. There is a rare case in which you are committed to a person wholeheartedly, then their support might help you to achieve your dreams but if a student emphasizes too much to impress opposite sex in real life instead of studying or planning, it always hampers their productivity in future.
Love for Social Media has no bounds. Your social media profile is more important than your real life. Everything ranging from scrolling looking at memes and tagging friends to posting stories about your whereabouts everyday do nothing but kill your valuable time. Remember, your social media is like monopoly money, you won’t make anything out of it in real life. Social media makes you addicted in such a way that you can’t survive a day without scrolling it like you are missing something important in life. Addictions always bring sufferings. There should be balance between the real life and social life.
Spending Time with Wrong People
Some people bring you up, some pull you down. It depends upon you how you choose your friends out of which some always motivates in you every situation and on other hand, some of them always find faults or excuses not to appreciate you. This is harsh when you are not valued by yours peers. You’re the Average of The Five People You Spend the Most Time With”—Jim Rohan.
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Planning Over Doing
If you spend more of your time in daydreaming, planning or thinking about the future than you do working hard to bring about that future, you are not making the most of your life.Peope who makes something of themselves pick a goal for the future and then work hard to make that goal or dream happen. Person who spends all their time daydreaming is not someone who spends all their time doing.
The biggest sign of wasting your time. This is my experience in PUBG, you’ll wake up in the morning determined to do something productive but you’ll end up collecting, attacking and chatting war strategy with your PUBG mates. Trust me guys it leads to nowhere. This game makes you insane lot of worries, pressure although fun. Please question yourself is it worth it? These games are designed in such way that you will be addicted and end up forgetting your important works by wasting a lot of time. Do not allow these unkind things hinder the growth of you towards your aim.
No goals mean no motivation. No motivation means no drive. No dive means staying same while everyone is moving forward with aspirations and goals. I know a lot of people who think they don’t have a passion. But that’s never the case. There has to be something that you make you happy by doing it. So, you need to rediscover what excites you and do more of it. You should come out of your comfort zone and do the extraordinary. Everyone has power lies within them. So be focus guys.
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Living in the Past
You don’t live there anymore so why cringe about it at Present. Go full throttle, cut off, remove any people & items which push you to live in the Past. Dwelling in past always drag you down and makes you disappointed. Life is too short to waste on yesterday or the people who don’t matter now. Look at the bigger picture and concentrate on goals same ways.
Addicted to Porn and Masturbation
You can’t go a day without watching porn and get mad when internet connection is poor. You visit porn sites daily and download new videos every now and then. This forces you to do masturbation that is the only way to cool your mind and control your urges. It lacks your concentration, learning power and led to frustration. In this way, you feel distracted all the time from your work or aspirations.
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