What girls wear, what they eat, where they go, who they talk to, who they hang out with, people have reservations about all these things. Our society decides how girls have to wear clothes, when they have to stay out of the house, when to return home. Our society has developed a lot today but the thinking of people is still small.
If the boys stay out of the house overnight, walking around wearing shorts, but no one stops them, but if the girl does all this, then the society suddenly has a lot of objection. This shows that the clothes of the girls have not become as small as the thinking of the people. People will be questioned on their character until they see the girls with respect. Some poor people even rape girls, it would be completely wrong to blame girls’ clothes. It is necessary to improve the thinking of such poor people and not to make girls wear saris.
If a person’s thinking is small then only the girl’s clothes matter.
People do not spare the woman with no burqa nor the girl of a few months. Girls continue to be manipulated, raped and filthy. People don’t see clothes, just see that she is a girl.
However, it is correct to say that the girl should wear clothes after looking at the environment. The dignity, culture etc. of a community should be kept in mind. For example, if you go to a village, do not wear short clothes because the people there do not have the same tradition and culture. But it should not be a problem to go anywhere else. If the girl lives in the city, she is grown up in the same place, then her clothes should not make any sense of her character. Everyone is allowed to wear anything, go anywhere and be safe. This small and lowly thinking has to be changed that if the girl wears short clothes, then she can do anything with it and if a girl wears salwar kameez, then not. Every woman, every human should be respected.
There is a need to change thinking here, not clothes.
by the way! Girls wear anything but men keep an eye on them. Then they go on to say that girls’ clothes attract us to them. For example, some time ago a blogger wrote a blog giving such comment. Often people are heard saying that only the small clothes of girls are the cause of such incidents. If the news is taken into account, from the 5-year-old girl to the middle-aged woman in the rape case, she has become the victim of such incidents. A woman living in a burqa also has to face harassment by men several times on the way. Is that woman still in short clothes at that time?
While cursing Western civilization, there is always an attempt to suppress such incidents by denying women as wrong. Today if western civilization is overshadowed in India, then not only women but men are also following it. Then why only women are considered guilty? Some time ago, Andhra Pradesh DGP Dinesh Reddy said, “The incidence of rape increases with women wearing fashionable and transparent clothes.” Here, too, he supported men only by denying women in a way. After all, why does the morality of men become corrupt when women wear ‘provocative’ (as men say) clothes? When they make even a small girl a victim of their longing, what inflammatory clothes does that child wear, which makes them uncontrollable.
India is a free country. Here every person has the right to speak, eat and wear whatever he wants, so why women change their dress for the thinking of men only! The girl has to face some kind of hangover while wearing small clothes or passing in front of big men. I do not know whether the clothes of girls are too short or the thinking of our society…!
Hope you understand…. Thank you