Everyone wants to be a hero of their own life. But nobody is perfect. You don’t have to resolve your entire life in just one day. You need to emphasize and try continuously. For that you have to focus on the most instant thing in front of you. Rest, you’ll discover along the way. In our life, things cannot be undone, but they teach us a strong lesson of not repeating them again in our life. Making mistakes is part of our life but not to repeat them again makes us a precious one. It never matters from where you are coming but all matter where you are heading for.
Most of us in our life done something that we sincerely regret & wishes could go back and change what happened. How do you deal with it and learn a lesson to live life with no guilt? So, here are a couple of my personal thoughts on how to live life with no regrets & make sure next time these mistakes are not repeated
Taking Life too Serious –
We all says “life is too short” Just live it with joy and fun. Every day, we face with a million little traps that forces us to take your life way too seriously than it is. It will make our problems larger than life. We should enjoy every cherish moment of life. Because at the end of the life nothing will matter. So just start living life with the grace and elegancy. Celebrate life as much as you can, because most of the people when they are on their death bed at their old age regret about things not done in their life when young.
Judging people so quickly –
Even though judgment is a natural instinct, try to catch yourself before you express you views about someone else. Many times, we judge people based on our assumptions without even thinking twice before doing it. Everyone has their own problems & consequences, sometimes we compare them with us & judge accordingly. Most of the time we can be right but if we are wrong it will hurt someone badly. So next time when you feel that you are about to judge someone, taking a deep breath, and feel your surroundings.
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Saying ‘yes’ every time –
For a happy & burden free life we need to learn how not to please everyone all the time. We have a habit of saying ‘yes’ when someone asks for help. Remember that we always have an option to say no. With each ‘yes’ you say to something that you don’t want to do; you will suffer more. Your motivation of doing things will reduce and overtime you will end up burdening yourself. It’s simply unmanageable to please everyone & trying to please everybody, pleases no body. So, we have to be brave and smart enough to call the shots & to make the choices you feel are right in order to be more effective.
Taking Education System very serious –
Education is very important for all, but in long run, wisdom & self-confidence play an important role which could be earned after being with different types of people and in different culture. It will educate you lessons of life that are described in any text book. Everybody learns in his/her way but what is more important is keep learning.
Not taking care of health –
Our health is the one of the most important aspect of life, but we keep it ignoring till it becomes a problem. We eat whatever we want to eat no matter if it’s healthy or not. We are just too Lazy for daily exercises. Our lifestyle has changed, we sleep late at night and wakeup late in the morning which disturbs our normal clock cycle. After spending all day in office, we just want to watch Tv or web series but no time for walking after having food. Not today but it will surely affect our life in long run.
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Concerned about what others think of me-
You cannot make it loud, if you care about what others think of you. Other people always expect something different from you and you are not here to entertain everyone. So, you just need to stop care about them and live life in your own way because our haters are here to criticize us each day at every phase of our life. If we start give them attention, our life would be owned by them. So, start breathing life the way you want, always stay bold like you once were as a child, and always take stand for the realty.
Expect anything from people–
Our True strength is in the soul and spirit, not in muscles. Sometimes we believe people will support us in the way we do to them. It’s not about hiring a personal lawyer for the lifetime to act upon things, but we just expect someone to show the same affection what we showed. It’s imperative to be nice to others, but it’s even more important to be nice to you first. This is a mean world where people see their profit in everything. It may sound harsh, but that’s the reality of this planet. Decide this minute to never again beg anyone for the love, respect and kindness that you should be showing yourself.
Conclusion –
Stop living for yourselves instead of living for others. Starting thinking about your life and health because to live healthy, cheerful and joyful, one needs to start it from his/her inner soul. Once you find that, things will start falling and place and this world will become what you want to see.
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